Being that the only children we have are furry and don't talk, Father's Day is still all about our dads this year. Its days like today that really make me sad that we live so far because for me all i'd like to do is spend the day with my dad. Instead we skyped and now i will reminisce a little before i put in the next load of laundry.
My dad was always hard working, taught me valuable lessons, provided me with incredible opportunities, and protected me like a great dad should. But strangely i didn't become a "daddy's girl" until i graduated from high school and went off to college. Maybe it was because he stopped working so hard and started having more fun, or maybe i was finally old enough to see how great he really was. probably it was a combination of both, and either way i am grateful.
We watched football and drank beer, i taught him what a keg stand was and he took pride in being a "Phi Sigma Sigma Dad". He talked me out of several compulsive changes of my major and he took a genuine interest in my life at college. My newfound closeness to my dad gave me that extra push to go home on long weekends and en excuse to get excited about the homecoming football game.
When it came time to plan my wedding, it was my dad that was the most excited about hearing all the little details. He came to almost every appointment, not just to write a check, but because he was actually interested in what the flowers would look like or what the food would taste like. He made sure he got to invite all his friends and that there would be an open bar so that it would be a great party. he said all the right things when i showed him my dress or talked about the favors.
Marrying Mark was clearly the best thing that happened that day, but walking down the aisle and dancing with my dad were some of the best moments i've had with my dad. So cheers to you dad, you party animal and you big softie, I love you tons and wouldn't trade you for any other dad in the world. It may have taken us a while to figure out our relationship, but its a damn good one.